吃人家的嘴软，拿人家的手短

繁体词形

吃人家的嘴軟，拿人家的手短

来源拼音（数字声调）

chi1 ren2 jia1 de5 zui3 ruan3 , na2 ren2 jia1 de5 shou3 duan3

英文原释义

中文教学解释尚未补齐；每条来源记录独立，不将以下释义片段机械拆为已审义项。

• lit. the mouth that has been fed by others is soft, the hand that has received doesn't reach (idiom)
• fig. one is partial to those from whom presents have been accepted

来源：CC-CEDICT 2026-10-31T21:06:18Z；cedict_ts.u8 第19562行。保留大小写与读音差异。